Are we dating?

That's a question I haven't been asked in months. All this "dating" that I have been doing and none of it has gotten to the point of asking, "are we dating?"

Well...I'm there. The red head asked the question.

Christ. All this work to get a boyfriend (potential husband) and I've never once actually thought about the fact of what to do if one of these set-ups were to actually work.

So...as per usual, I found a witty way of getting out of answering that question to buy myself some more time before becoming insta-girlfriend!

Then, it got me thinking...
What exactly does it mean to be "dating?" Found a ton of really entertaining definitions when I googled it. This ivillage one cracked me up...I feel like if a guy were to tell me that he wanted a "night of hugs," that I'd throw up on him first, then dump him exactly for the reason he's afraid of...for being unmanly! Anyway, click on the link, it's kind of funny. I need to go think about what "dating" means to me. Any thoughts?

I have another date...

...and he doesn't live with his Mom! (See below for all the drama on the potential set-up that lives with his Mom)
This is date #2 with the new red head. He has a sense of humor, a job, a car, owns a building on Clifton (a block from Wrigley) and likes the Cubs almost as much as I do. I did meet his Dad already (after Saturday's Cubs game) and well, he's a good sport -- his Dad played 3-man at Murphy's with the rest of us!

More later...

Date night

I got a date all by myself. And, it's with a red head. This doesn't mean that the blog is ending or that you should stop thinking of me every time you meet a nice, eligible bachelor. It just means, I have a date.

Things are looking up though, as I have a few others in the mix:
- JK has "softball guy"
- Brooke has "Davey boy"
- Karyn has "lives with his mom, but is rich boy"

Anyone else?

No fireworks, but not because he sucked...

...but because he wasn't at the party!
So, "JK" will have to try again. Better luck next time. In the meantime, Adler's Mom has a live one. And, for once, he's older than me! But, he lives at home so he better be so good-looking it makes up for it :)